Hello!

It has been very long since I last blogged about something right.

Life has been quite interesting for me so far, loads of bad and good, but afterall, it boils down to how you actually look at the things that happens to you. To see if as a miracle or a disaster, it is all in the mind of that individual.

As time passes by, I've learnt that not everything that happens to me is going to be good, it can be just things that are horrible and terrible and everything that is not right, but that's life. Nobody will have a life of only ups and no downs, it is not possible. Who in the world is happy throughout their whole life? Who has actually not felt disappointed, sad or angry or an emotion that is not positive, that is theoretically and literally IMPOSSIBLE.

So I've learnt to be more open- minded about what life has to offer to me.
So what if I'm going to fail in some parts, in certain aspects of life?
So what if I'm going to have haters?
So what if I'm suffering in whatever I'm doing right now?
So what if I don't get the things that I want right now?
So what if I get disappointed every now and then?
And etcetera.
Of course I don't feel those right now, but I'm sure, one point in time in life, I'm bound to feel that way and for sure it wouldn't be just once, so why fret over it all the time when I know something that is similar will happen again? No point, NO FRIGGIN' POINT! J

I know there are sure to have people out there who doesn't like you, trust me, even if you're very popular among the friends that you know, there are still bound to be people who hates/detest/dislike you. Why be bothered about them since there's nothing much that you can do? Don't be bothered by these people, afterall, it must be because you dare to do something that they didn't dare to, that's why they are calling you names like bastard/jerks/bitch/douche or whatsoever. I'm not trying to say that if you did something wrong and they call you those names equates to 'it's okay' cause of what I typed above, but if you know you did nothing really wrong, and that they don't want to go to you, straight to your face and tell you what you did wrong, then forget it.

You ought to be blamed and feel apologetic when you did something wrong when you, yourself realized it, or when some other person(s) tells you that you were wrong, but if someone, rather gossip and bitchtalk/shittalk about you instead, it makes them no better. Do not be affected by what other say about you. It is okay and alright to make mistakes, you're human, and humans aren't perfect.

And again, do not, I repeat, DO NOT judge people according to what you hear from someone, because it's the words that you say that judges yourself. And lastly, you're not the person, you can see/hear what they do, but you don't know how they feel when they were doing it.

Think twice with your brain (if you do have one) before gossiping.
That is what you would be judged, that is what people see of you.
And beware, KARMA'S A BITCH IF YOU ARE ONE.